(her) Satisfaction Guaranteed

Chapter 1: Introduction
Chapter 2: Too many men just don’t get it
Chapter 3: Set the mood
Chapter 4: A good lover must be a good kisser

You’ve read this modest book and now you have the cornerstones for the knowledge you need … you understand the mechanics of how to please her. The “wall of pleasure” as I call it, really works. If she is an average woman with average sexual responses, it flat out gets the job done. Always. Massive orgasms. Every time. Never fails.

It wasn’t the size of the man’s erection that was causing her to seek sexual attention elsewhere, it was the dysfunctionality exhibited by a man who had talked himself into believing he was inadequate.

The third glass of wine or second mixed drink almost always reduced [the woman’s] ability to have a really powerful orgasm. It also took longer, which sometimes created problems with lubrication, sensitivity & soreness, etc. In my case, it took the edge off my ability to perform. That’s the rule: a maximum of two glasses of wine, two beers or one mixed drink.

She revealed she was bi-sexual and currently living with a woman who was also in the business. We stayed in contact and some weeks later I went to their house for dinner and we had a great evening sharing stories, arguing politics and talking about our “trade.”

The second scenario is more difficult to achieve, but outrageously more satisfying for both of you. This is the equivalent of a sexual home run. What happens is that she has just had an orgasm and you immediately bring her to another. And another. And another. They just tumble in on top of each other. What a rush!

Before we get started, let me explain why this technique works so well. If you are into music, you probably have heard of a producer named Phil Spector. Legal troubles aside, he is considered by many to be a genius at what he does and has worked with acts as diverse as The Ronettes, Beatles and Eddie Money.

Touching breasts is an art form all by itself. They require a gentle touch, and there is a sequence I have found that consistently arouses my partners. Begin with the flat of your hand, just the way you would if you were rubbing her side or legs. Brush across her breast, but don't touch the nipple. If you haven't already figured it out, many womens nipples are exceptionally sensitive.

As the kissing progresses, you will be holding and stroking each other and generally moving toward a greater level of intimacy. When it feels right you can introduce your tongue. Begin with just a flick and a soft touch with the tip, then more if she responds. Remember, “tease to please” always works best unless she is already on fire and pulling off your clothes.

How much do you really know about a woman’s body and how she’s sexually wired? Have you learned anything new since being with your first lover? Have you just been going through the motions; repeating the same tired moves forever? Have you ever suspected the women you are with are faking an orgasm? Would you know if they were?

I was at exactly the same place with Laura as you are when you and your girlfriend get together to make love for the first time. The potential exists for both disaster and wonder. You have more power at this moment than you realize, because by controlling the environment you can greatly improve the odds that it will be wonderful.