FAQs
Frequently Asked Questions
We have begun to get a lot of questions, and we have repeated them below just as they have been received. They have been organized into general groupings that can be answered similarly.
1) How to give a woman an orgasm? How to give a woman a orgasm? How to give an orgasm? Ways to give a girlfriend an orgasm? Orgasm womans? Best way to give woman orgasm? Giving a woman an orgasm? How to bring a woman to orgasm? How to give a orgasm? How to give her an orgasm? Ways to give an orgasm? Ways to have an orgasm?
I believe the best answer to questions such as these is to not look at just the mechanical aspects of giving a woman an orgasm (which are explained in Chapter 6), but instead to consider a broader picture that includes the emotional and mental makeup of the lady you desire to please. My success was based upon knowing when to do something, not just how to do it. Chapters 3 and 5 directly address these considerations. Keep an open mind, because It begins with you wanting to become a better lover, trying and mastering new techniques and listening to what her body language is telling you.
2) What are the signs of a womans orgasm? Can I tell she came? How do I know if she had an orgasm? How do I know when she comes? Did she have a climax?
There are several signs that are relatively common. They include a period of heightened body tension followed by dramatic relaxation, a sudden quieting of her breathing (and possibly vocalizations), and a pink-like flush that typically appears on her torso between her belly button and the bottom of her neck. These can be somewhat confusing because she can be almost there and still have some or all of these symptoms. The one sign that I think is the most reliable is when at the moment she peaks and experiences an orgasm her vagina will begin pulsing with rhythmic, gentle contractions. It can be difficult to feel them if you are having intercourse because the shaft of your erection is not very sensitive. Fingers, and certainly your tongue, will more easily sense them.
A fact of life is that a woman may choose to fake an orgasm. She may decide to do this for many reasons, but the most common is that her partner doesnt really know what hes doing (or doesnt care). I discuss what my clients said about this in Chapter 2.
3) What is a multiple orgasm? How to give a woman multiple orgasms? How often can a woman have a orgasm? Is there an extended plateau phase after orgasm? How to give a multiple orgasm? Female multiple orgasms? How to give multiple orgasms? How to achieve multiple orgasms? How to give a girl multiple orgasms?
Chapter 7 is all about multiple orgasms. There are two basic types. The first is where she has an orgasm and then, perhaps an hour later repeats the process starting, so to speak, from scratch. The second is where she has an orgasm and then immediately has another. And another. This can go on for quite awhile because some women can experience literally dozens before their sexual energy is exhausted. The orgasms may vary in intensity, but they are all real, and with each one she will reach a degree of excitement where she experiences a complete sexual release. Some women seem to linger on a plateau for quite some time after their orgasm and then slowly decline into full relaxation. I discuss a technique in Chapter 7 that will allow many woman to stay up and not relax so quickly. This technique might allow some women to arrest their fall after orgasm and extend a more intense level of pleasure somewhat longer.
4) How to get a really good orgasm? How to improve an orgasm? More intense orgasms? How to give a good orgasm? How do I make her come really hard?
I believe that any really good orgasm is preceded by a lot of sexual tension. To obtain that higher level of tension, it will help if you are really revved up and aroused by your partner and you really wants to be where you are doing what your doing with whom you are doing it with. You are rested, energetic and feeling good without your senses dulled by too much in the way of alcohol or chemicals. Chapter 9 takes a look at these factors.
Orgasms you do so you can simply relax, or to deal with stress or tension are, in my view, considerably less intense than those you experience when conditions are as I describe above.
There are hundreds of articles out on the web that contain opinions and suggestions about how to have a powerful orgasm. Ranging from chemicals to devices to physical methodology, Ill leave it to you to decide what you are willing to try and how it works, or doesnt work, for you.
5) What is the definition of a gigolo? Life of a gigolo? Gigolo sex? Man gigolo? Male gigolo? Gigolo service? Gigolo men? Gigolo guy? Definition of a gigolo? How to become a gigolo? Define gigolo?
Websters dictionary defines a gigolo as a French word meaning, A man who is paid to be a dancing partner or escort for women. It is derived from the female variation gigolette, the French word for a prostitute or concubine. Before the word pimp became widely used in America, it was common to use the word gigolo to describe a man who was supported by a prostitute.
Gigolos are required to bring more to the table than a male prostitute. They are expected to travel easily in so-called higher society, possess social graces and good manners, be able to contribute to discussions of politics, art and business, be in excellent physical shape, possess exemplary sexual skills and always, always maintain their discretion. They are relatively uncommon, and the author only met a few others in the 25 years he was in the trade. The decline in their numbers can be explained by a progressively more casual atmosphere for social interaction and dating, as well as the general relaxation of sexual mores since the 60s. However, for women with money, gigolos remain a viable alternative to dating men who are overly demanding of their time, sexually unskilled, possibly after their money, dont know how to dance, have poor manners, etc.
6) SCI sex? Intercourse with erectile dysfunction? Spinal cord injury sex? ED sex? ED intercourse? Performance anxiety? How to get an erection? Maintaining an erection?
It took me about a year to develop a methodology (the ones described in Chapter 6 in the book) that consistently gave me great results with my clients. I didnt plan it that way, but amazingly enough the technique doesnt require you to have an erection! It was only later I realized the potential value of this to the ED/SCI community. The method has tremendous potential to empower individuals with SCI and ED to satisfy their lover to the same degree as I was able to do with my clients. [Click ED/Spinal Cord Injury on this sites Home Page for more information.]
I really didnt think much about it at the time, but a few months later I was with Melanie and discovered this unintended bonus of the method. I was feeling really, really poorly, and pretty much knew I wasnt going to be able to maintain an erection. On the other hand, she was on a roll. So it would have been awkward to interrupt the pleasure I was giving Melanie and ask her to put it on the shelf until next week. Instead I simply went into the method and after an hour and several orgasms it never dawned upon her that we had never had intercourse!
Just recently a purchaser of the book emailed and said that after years of dating skanks (his word), he had lost some weight, was promoted a couple of times at work, bought a newer car, etc. and suddenly he was out on a date with a really attractive and successful lady. The kind he only dreamed of in the past. When they finally got down to it, he suffered performance anxiety in the worst way and couldnt get an erection. Apparently, he was worried he wouldnt measure up against the guys shed been with in the past, etc. Probably in a complete ED panic, he mentally turned to Chapter 6 and did what I did with Melanie. She got so turned on that he became excited, forgot about his anxiety and nature took care of everything.
